My parents told Grandma they were taking her out to lunch. Three hours later, a nursing facility called me. Her suitcase was sitting in their lobby, and my parents were nowhere to be found. I drove 190 miles to bring her back with me. She clicked her seatbelt into place, looked straight at me, and said, “Don’t call them. I’ll tell you exactly where we’re going.”
The nursing facility called me at 4:17 p.m. and asked why my eighty-two-year-old grandmother had been abandoned in their lobby with one suitcase and no admission paperwork. Three hours earlier, my parents had kissed her cheek and told her they were taking her somewhere nice for lunch. I was already grabbing my keys before the…