At my husband’s ceo ceremony, his secretary kissed him in front of 500 employees. When i told her to step away, my husband shoved me to the floor and shouted, “Know your place!” The room erupted in laughter. I stood up, sent one message, and whispered, “Dad… Take the stage.” Moments later, the chairman walked to the microphone—and my husband’s smile disappeared.
The kiss lasted only three seconds, but five hundred employees watched my marriage break on two ballroom screens. Vanessa Reed, my husband’s executive secretary, had just placed the gold CEO pin on Adrian Cole’s lapel when she curled one hand around his neck and kissed him. Adrian did not pull away. His palm settled at…